That simple my friends. If you keep complaining about something and people give you multiple steps to help and try to fix it and you refuse for dumb reasons like, Oh i dont want to do that or im too lazy to do that, the STOP FUCKING COMPLAINING. It really drives me up a wall and lately I have seen it everywhere. Now before some of your minds get pissed at me im not talking about super serious things like, rape, domestic abuse, hunger (at large), or anything like that. I am simply talking about everyday normal down to earth complaints. Time for examples :D
Today on campus two girls were sitting in the hub talking about how cold they were. I was thinking yes it is very cold out and it does suck. I then noticed how these two girls were dressed. They were wearing Mini skirts, and those stupid leggings shit and a hoody. Well no wonder why your cold. Its like 7 degrees out, with a windchill of like -3 and your dressed for 60 degree weather. One of these girls friends whom i thikn should get an award did say why dont you wear pants and a jaket. I wanted to stand up and shake her hand because she was right. The girls said this is fine and kept complainig about how cold they were. I wanted to say shut the fuck up to these girls because they were complaining about something that could be easily fixed, but because they want to look like dorks they will freeze. No pitty from me.
Another example, my friend says to me, "Im tired" I say go to sleep. Thinking it is late, you worked all day aren't feeling that well. The person replies back no i dont want to. I say why, and they reply because i just dont want to. Well then dont complain to me that your tired. If you dont want to sleep and fix the problem then dont complain about it. Same goes with being sick. (This recently has been happening wiht like EVERY PERSON I KNOW) Im sick and really tired and i dont want to go to class, or in others work. Then dont go your sick you should stay home, get rest, and not infect others. You are ligitametly sick so stay home. They reply I cant. Well then go to a doctor. I cant. I ask why they say becuase i just cant or i dont want to. Well then shut up cuz i dont care. If you dont want to help yourslef then dont compalin.
Now I know we all complain about easy fix problems all the time. Im guilty too, but i have noticed this a lot lately and it has been getting on my nerves and I am now starting to realize when i need to shut up. If i am complaining about something and someone gives me a fix that is very simple to do and i say i dont want to i immediately stop talking about and dont want to talk about it. Why because i know how frustrating this can be to the person giving the advice. If you dont want to help yourself for something simple then shut the eff up. For example I was talking with my friend about how i wish i could travel more. She replied that i should get a passport its smart to do and then wont limit me in my tavels, along with other reasons. I replied no i dont want to do that. Then i realized this is my fault then, no one else fault but my own. She is right in her advice and i shot it down becuase of my own ignorance. I then stopped talking about that and changed the subject.
Ugh im just pissed right now...so people if you dont want to help yourself for someting minor then dont complain about it cuz you drive me nutssss.
peace
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